Friday, January 14, 2011

Fête des Lumières

This was a highlight date night for me.  I think Lavar too.  Every year in Lyon they have what is called the Fête des Lumières.  It is pretty huge and aparently millions of people go every year.  It is a place where light techies and students studying that kind of stuff can go to show their stuff.  It was so cool.  We are only 45 minutes from Lyon, but one of our French friends advised us that it would be wise to take the train because of how packed it gets there.  Lavar didn't like that idea too much, he likes to be in more control of situations with our car, but I convinced him, thinking the train would be fun!  Not only was it fun, it was completely needed.  Lavar did indeed later say, 'you were right.'  And I cherished it. 


Telling me he was going to steal my goves. I don't think so.


Still love him!
 We started off the evening dropping off our boys at our friends house who, wait for it, watched them overnight!!!  Then we headed out to the train station.  It was C.O.L.D.  I offered Lavar a pair of gloves and he said he was fine that he would put his hand in his pocket.  Then I said "what if I want to hold your hand?"  He then replied "I'll hold it in my pocket."  Well, not to gloat or anything, but his hands were freezing and once again, I was right.  This night was lookin' good for momma!  (I do love my husband, and was sad that he was cold, but he should have listened to me. haha).  We started our night at a steak house.  Nice because it is kinda American.  It was in the center of a main shopping area in Lyon.  It was lovely.  I found a STARBUCKS!  Then we headed out.  I tried to take pictures, but the camera I was using wasn't all the great at night pictures.  Or opperater error, who knows.
Lighted birds

Waiting for dinner

Yep, Starbucks!
 Starbucks is a must have in a country where the coffee is basically shots of espresso.  Lavar didn't care so much, but he took the photo.  And he kept not getting Starbucks in the picture, so I was standing there for a good 5 to 10 minutes.  I know the French were thinking 'stupid american' on that one for sure.
This was supposed to be a face that you could see with the light in the steam.  not so much
 The lights were mostly pretty but seriously, nothing all that spectacular.  There were lines waiting to get into certain things, but we didn't wait...  The regular shows on the street was good enough for us.
More bird lights

Some 'street lamps'

something on the wall...


This one was kinda cool, they used a statue in the center and the horses all had green eyes.  The lights came on and went off.  It was neat.

Just in case you needed to know.



Man, it's blurry.  But a ton of people.

He looks huge! haha  He really isn't that scary, I promise.  Even though I am sure he would like you to think so.

lovey dovey

I'm trying to be hard core too... not so much

silly boy

Overall, the night was awesome.  Just us, train ride into the city, beautiful lights, just us, starbucks coffee, just us, getting out of the house, did I mention it was just us?  lol, all you moms out there understand what I'm sayin'.  I love my boys, but momma needs breaks every now and then!  Thank you to our friends who watched the boys!  We actually have another date night tonight!  A lot more simple, just dinner, but much needed.  Oh and to all my French friends, I would definitely suggest not taking the kiddos.  I did see strollers and the like there, but it was freezing and it just doesn't seem like it would be nearly as fun if you had to be worrying about the kids and such.  Just FYI.  But date night, awesome!

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

I'm Back!

D'accord, it has been too long!  At the beginning of December Eli, our lovely little Eli, pulled the cord of our computer and it tugged the computer off the counter it was on.  It wasn't that big of a tug, but it certainly messed up the computer.  We lost everything.  No pictures, no videos or anything we had before.  Serious bummer.  Most of our pictures are somewhere online or on my mom's computer, so not so bad, but still a bummer because I am sure we are missing some things.  I haven't really surveyed all the damages yet.  Not sure I want to...  Anyway, now that I am back, I have a lot of pictures to post!  First I will start with some randomness.  And I am not going to do it all in one day, (sorry mom!) but there are too many.

Our little Randy! (get it, Christmas Story)

My boys

He is very smart. Already reading!

Mom!

Look at that face!

Love that smile!

funny boy

me and my boys

handsome little boogers
 

Friday, December 3, 2010

Happy Birthday Husband!

We are starting the birthday weekend!!!  Game tonight.  Please, please win!!!  This would definitely help the mood of the weekend.  Then Lavar is going out with a teammate tonight to Lyon.  Tomorrow is family day all day starting at McDo's then to Centre Dieu for some shopping and Christmas festivities.  Then home to clean and cook.  We are having some guys on the team over, so you all know that means I need to make some food!  Then Sunday we are off to church, home to nap and then family day complete with a movie all cuddled together in Mommy and Daddy's bed. 

I never knew I could love Lavar so much.  I am so blessed to have him as my husband.  Even in his imperfections he is wonderful becuase he is always working to be a better dad, a better husband, and a better man.  What more could you ask for?  I think that sums it up.  So Happy Birthday Husband!  I can't wait to make him feel as special as he is to us. 

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Pictures and a little bit of Christmas

{Warning: Picture Overload!!}

He loves bathtime!

Can't wait to get in, but can't figure it out

Got a hand in!

Tae doesn't have a bath so he likes to sit in with Eli

Such a good brother, trying to help his brother

My crazy boy!

My other crazy boy

What the heck, mom?


Daddy gettin the tree out!

Tae thinks he is hilarious...


Daddy and Tae putting snow on the window

We had to tie strings onto each one


Haven't they heard of ornament hooks??

There's always a little basketball practice involved
We have our little place decorated for Christmas and Tae loves it!  Now we just need to get Christmas presents!!  I love this time of year!

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Different

I got to thinking about this the other day.  We are probably as different as they come.  Black guy, from the Bahamas, different background and upbringing.  White girl, from Simi Valley, pretty sheltered, you get the picture.  Our boys are obviously mixed.  Most people would say this isn't a big deal, and I don't think it is, but the reality of the situation is that some people still don't fully accept black people or interracial couples.  {Mostly in America, France is a lot better with it.}  So I was thinking how lucky our boys will be.  Not only are they sooo handsome, they are intercultural, interracial, and speak another language (I was thinking about the future when we move back to the States).  I would immediately be attracted to that boy, if there was someone like that when I was growing up.  I love different.  I think it is attractive and interesting.  So why wouldn't people be interested in my boys? 

But then a thought hit me.  Not everyone is like me...  Some people don't find different intriguing, they find it strange and intimidating.  Not to mention we will probably be going back to Simi Valley to live, with all of like 3 other black families in the city.  All the little white kids at church and school might not find it attractive or interesting or someone they would like to get to know.  Heck, they might have never even seen a black kid!  They might think they were a little scary and intimidating. (After all, they will both be huge!)  They might not want to bother with them when they already have their comfort zone of friends. 

I guess who really knows.  Maybe it won't be like that at all and they will be completely accepted.  Just another thing that we have to think about that most people don't.  Not bad, just different.  Something to be aware of and careful for but also we shouldn't assume this will be the way it will go.